This website has a new name: Curiosity Central.
The former name, Better Than a Baby, hasn’t been accurate for a while. When I launched the site, I was exploring my identity as a late-30s woman with no kids: the ups and downs of that, and the adventures it’s easier to enjoy when you don’t have children.
Since then, my life has shifted and turned. I’m 43 now, and I’m still content—mostly—at the prospect of never being a mom. However, I’m also open to becoming a parent, whether through marrying a guy who already has children, or through fostering or adopting a child.
Life with kids is incredibly rich and complicated. Life without kids is too. Right now, I’m in a good position to nurture others: my Little Sister, my friends, and my family members (parents and cousins).
Maybe there will be a new chapter where I get to nurture stepkids or adopted kids, too. We’ll see.
In any case, the whole “childfree” thing has been losing its pull on me. I’ve been writing about it less and less.
And it’s led me to question: What the heck is this website about, anyway?
To answer that, I’ve been trying to find a unifying theme in my posts from the last year or so. And the prevailing one I’ve found is curiosity.
Curiosity and kindness are two key qualities I’m looking for in a man.
November’s election results sparked an immense curiosity in me about the divisions in our country: between Democrats and Republicans, progressives and conservatives, the coasts and the middle.
Lately, I’ve been attending a Baptist church, which has flooded me with curiosity about Christianity and how I understand God.
…curiosity is more than a mere trait. It is a discipline, a skill, a habit—one that will expand your life in magnificent, if subtle, ways.
So, readers, please join me in expanding our mutual curiosity: about love, about politics, about faith, and about how we strange human creatures interact in our bizarre and dynamic world.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on the new theme, and learn how curiosity plays out in your life. What have you been curious about lately?
Photo by the author, taken at the Bath, ME antique car show.